Emily. 22. Recent college grad trying to figure life out. DC chilling. Random posts of photos I find, personal stuff, and things I like. "You and your pugs and your X-Files" - luminiferousaether




"Depression is humiliating. It turns intelligent, kind people into zombies who can’t wash a dish or change their socks. It affects the ability to think clearly, to feel anything, to ascribe value to your children, your lifelong passions, your relative good fortune. It scoops out your normal healthy ability to cope with bad days and bad news, and replaces it with an unrecognizable sludge that finds no pleasure, no delight, no point in anything outside of bed. You alienate your friends because you can’t comport yourself socially, you risk your job because you can’t concentrate, you live in moderate squalor because you have no energy to stand up, let alone take out the garbage. You become pathetic and you know it. And you have no capacity to stop the downward plunge. You have no perspective, no emotional reserves, no faith that it will get better. So you feel guilty and ashamed of your inability to deal with life like a regular human, which exacerbates the depression and the isolation.
Depression is humiliating.
If you’ve never been depressed, thank your lucky stars and back off the folks who take a pill so they can make eye contact with the grocery store cashier. No one on earth would choose the nightmare of depression over an averagely turbulent normal life.
It’s not an incapacity to cope with day to day living in the modern world. It’s an incapacity to function. At all. If you and your loved ones have been spared, every blessing to you. If depression has taken root in you or your loved ones, every blessing to you, too.
Depression is humiliating.
No one chooses it. No one deserves it. It runs in families, it ruins families. You cannot imagine what it takes to feign normalcy, to show up to work, to make a dentist appointment, to pay bills, to walk your dog, to return library books on time, to keep enough toilet paper on hand, when you are exerting most of your capacity on trying not to kill yourself. Depression is real. Just because you’ve never had it doesn’t make it imaginary. Compassion is also real. And a depressed person may cling desperately to it until they are out of the woods and they may remember your compassion for the rest of their lives as a force greater than their depression. Have a heart. Judge not lest ye be judged."


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http://pomeranianprivilege.tumblr.com/post/92572250508/dragonsupremacy-people-who-get-mad-about-gold 

dragonsupremacy:

People who get mad about “gold diggers” are so laughable, esp. when they equate women using men for their money to men using women for sex. Only a complete dumbass thinks a man’s money is so sacred so as to be comparable to having someone use your body for their pleasure,…


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posted Vor 3 Stunden with 41.024 Anmerkungen (originally from dissociativedarling-deactivated)

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Women are not punished in this world for acting ‘like men’. We are punished for acting like human beings. In our world, only men are human. They take that label for themselves, they accord themselves social and economic and legal privileges because of it, and they declare women other and different and make damn sure that we wear our inferiority in whatever way they tell us to. Through our clothing and our hairstyles and our submissive and ingratiating behaviours.

Any time a woman gives herself the right to be fully clothed, to have access to forums and spaces in which to express her ideas and opinions, to work in fields which men declare unsuitable, to be comfortable and free of bodily restriction, she is (knowingly or not) refusing to accept her inferior sex-caste status. We are declaring our right to be human. Not our right to be men, our right to be human. Got it?

The association of man with human is so pervasive, yet invisible, that women refusing to accept inferior status is equated with wanting to be men, rather than with wanting to be human, which is surely more accurate. And it is difficult to get away from…

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posted Vor 4 Stunden with 1.603 Anmerkungen (originally from seebster)

luaren:

abigaildonaldson:

The poor models at Louis Vuitton.

this is why I cringe at y’all when you say wearing high heels is empowering and revolutionary

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bestpal:

please stop romanticizing Lord Farquad

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happy-for-someriseing:

I love Anastasia but they get so much shit wrong and I had to talk about it.

(via lord-kitschener)


posted Vor 8 Stunden with 70.654 Anmerkungen (originally from happy-for-someriseing)

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deadpaint:

Claude Monet, Stom at Belle-Isle

deadpaint:

Claude Monet, Stom at Belle-Isle

(via loveyourchaos)


posted Vor 15 Stunden with 81.427 Anmerkungen (originally from deadpaint)

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